ranting and raving

GAAAH! I hafta rant, i just hafta.

Chinese girls in china - what the FUCK is wrong with u all?!?!?! OMG!!!

A few points i'd like to clarify for any youth in China who waunders past and reads this:

- Western culture is NOT all about sex. Sure, being a virgin is not a consideration that most of us care about now when thinking about getting married to someone, but we do NOT all sleep around, and we do NOT all take sex lightly. (yes, some people do. but we're not "ALL" like that!)

- Meanwhile, traditional chinese culture is NOT all high and mighty, and is NOT glorious!!! Yes, the values regarding sex, modesty, etc are good, but the closed-mindedness sickens me! You choose not to accept anyone who's not "normal" in your eyes, or basically exactly like you. But then, you will accept them if they have money or fame or can do something for you. UGH!

- and the new "meld" between Western and traditional Chinese culture is just perverse. You've decided to butcher BOTH cultures. You've allowed most of the good things in Chinese culture to just wash away (ok fine, Mao helped with that a lot too), and you've adopted the promiscuity that you think all of us Westerners exhibit. Well, your NEW culture is just disgusting. I hate it.

More ranting:
So, stop painting us with your VERY broad brush. We, in the west, are not all sheep that follow our flock around like blind bats. Our education system teaches us to be indepedent. We have our own opinions, our own thoughts, our own ideas that may be affected by society, media, friends, sure, but in the end [for the smart people anyway], we come up with our OWN philosophies! This is a complete 180 from YOUR education system, where IF you do not do what everyone else is doing, you're penalized, where they do not teach you even one OUNCE of self-dignity or respect or independence! and i KNOW there are exceptions to this, that there are some individuals that are not like that - but there aren't many of you!!! Proportion-wise, there are a lot fewer of you there than there are of us here.... and that's just pathetic because you actually think that you're better than us! HAHAHAAA!!! You make fun of our education system. Sure, we go slower, but why not judge it at the end?? MOST of us do not live off our parents 'til we're married, nor the "slower" kids in the class choose to committ suicide at the tender age of 10 [or under]! Do the school officials really think that FORCING a 6 year old child to do 6hrs of homework per night is fair? is healthy? is normal? ....

and girls, how about you tuck away that boob, and start working for yourself? How about finding your OWN job to support YOURSELF, and not spend all day groaning and complaining about how there are no guys out there for you cuz they're all "losers" who don't have their own house, their own car, and no debt. How about some independence, huh? would that kill you??? well, i guess it just might.

Most of you are hypocrites. that's right. stop denying it. The words that come out of your mouth make you sound chaste, but if no one was looking, you'd jump on and fuck the next thing that moved! so, do NOT judge us. do NOT make sweeping generalizations. Until you have lived here and have experienced BOTH sides of the world, you do not have a right to paint me, my friends and the rest of us with your brush. I have lived on both sides of the world, and I have, i think, adopted the best of both sides (unlike most of you, who've adopted the WORST of both worlds). So, get over yourself.

Oh, and btw, 25 is NOT "too old" to have a baby. Do some research before you make such outrageous claims to me. talk to me in 10 yrs, and THEN i'll listen.

MJ, Elly, Ade, Viv, and all of my other Chinese girl friends here, I LOVE YOU! I'm soooooo glad you're not Chinese losers.

OMFG how does Leehom live in asia?!?!? Not liking fake girls and being surrounded by them - OMG! GOOD LUCK BUDDY, trying to find a wife!

NOTE: i know not all chinese girls in china fall into the above category of losers. But I've been there, i've met people, I've talked to people, and i've been disgusted. I've ranted and raved to my mom, to my guy friends in china, and to every other intelligent person who will listen - they all agree that it's fucked up.
and btw, if you're white and in china, u will NOT see what everyone else sees because you are different and people act differently around you (i.e. they're nicer to you). If you're any other colour, then i apologize for those losers for treating you like dirt. I hate them too.